I’m a big champion for enjoying the look and feel of your own body (Picture: Rachel Adams 2023)
Scrolling through my phone, I paused on the dirty clip I had all but forgotten about.
After I pressed play, a nude figure appeared on the screen, sitting on the edge of a bed with come-hither eyes.
Clearly she was waiting for her lover to give his next instruction.
At first, you can only see his feet but then the camera suddenly angled upwards, exposing his crown jewels in all their glory.
As he approached her, the sexual tension was palpable which made a smile spread across my face because I knew exactly what happened next.
And not just because I’ve watched this film before – or because porn plots are pretty obvious. See, this is actually my very own sex tape.
That’s right, I was the star of this show.
While some people might cringe at the thought of making a homemade flick, filming myself during sex has never really phased me. In fact, I find it exciting.
That’s likely because I spent several years in long distance on-again, off-again relationships where technology played a huge part.
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Conversation is all well and good but sometimes you just want to cum, even if it is through a phone.
So when I once dated someone who lived around hundreds of miles away, and we had plenty of video sex.
Granted, that’s a little different from filming the act itself, but it certainly got me comfortable with seeing my body from every angle and on a screen.
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Then around 10 years ago, an ex of mine suggested we pull out the camera during sex.
I was open to the idea and before I knew it, we were watching ourselves during our very own ‘live show’, shagging in the missionary position. He held the phone camera up with the lens facing towards us and pushed record.
I had no apprehensions – because I trusted my partner implicitly – and we had a lot of fun making our two-minute-long clip.
I’m not sure what else the lens captured though because we deleted our homemade porn straight afterwards.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m a big champion for enjoying the look and feel of your own body. It deserves your attention.
But it’s one thing to spend some time in front of the mirror looking at your beautiful shape (which I urge you to do) – it’s quite another to see your own sex face in action and at that time I wasn’t quite ready to see that.
To some extent I still felt that way a few years later when my partner, Beau*, first suggested we film ourselves …read more
Source:: Metro
