Outside of the bedroom, I am very bad at taking the backseat (Picture: Rachel Adams)
My lover and I are standing across from each other, inches away from the bed.
He’s just had a shower and a few drops of water slide down his stomach and land on the towel he’s wrapped around his waist.
Even though he’s nearly naked and I am fully dressed, there is no question that he has the upper hand.
‘Take your clothes off,’ he tells me, without breaking eye contact.
My body aches for him. We’ve been teasing each other for hours, eagerly waiting for the friends we had over for drinks to leave so that we can have sex.
The air is tense with anticipation as I dutifully oblige and slowly undress for him.
He doesn’t move a muscle, just looks hungrily at my body as each layer is shed until I am in my birthday suit.
Only then does he finally touch me.
He lifts me up, making me feel light as a feather, and places me onto the bed.
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The sex is amazing and lasts for hours. My lover gives me orders along the way, telling me which way to move and bend, when to play with myself and where to touch him.
I am at the mercy of his every whim and I absolutely love it.
It’s taken me a few years to accept that I like to be submissive in the bedroom. I wondered what letting a man take the lead said about me, and whether I was letting womankind down. I now realise that’s nonsense.
I enjoy nothing more than to take instructions (Picture: Rachel Adams)
Outside of the bedroom, I am very bad at taking the backseat.
I manage a big team and work in a high pressure environment. Urgent deadlines are a regular part of my day. Switching off doesn’t come naturally to me.
I am also a fiercely independent woman who pays her own way and handles her own business.
And yet, when it comes to sex, I enjoy nothing more than to take instructions.
Power play of this kind comes in many forms and I’ve tried quite a few of them.
One particularly delicious memory includes my partner tying my hands to the bedpost and having his way with me (with my consent, of course).
Another time, an ex and I tried ‘edging’ – which is when you take yourself or your partner to the point of orgasm and then stop to make the eventual climax more intense. I had to ask his permission to finish, which was torturous and incredibly hot all at the same time.
When I was in my mid-20s, I didn’t really think about power dynamics like this …read more
Source:: Metro
