I might stick out like a sore thumb when it comes to the meal, worries Lucy (Picture: Getty)
Dear Alison,
I’m going to a friend’s wedding in a couple of weeks and I’m a bit nervous. I met her while she was studying her masters in the UK – she’s from Brazil – and we became fast friends. Afterwards, she moved back home and we stayed in touch with regular calls, and she’s come back to stay with me a handful of times.
I’m really excited to have been invited to her wedding in Brazil but I am feeling anxious about one thing. I don’t speak the language and I know from my friend that not many people in her network speak English.
I don’t have a significant other, so I’d be going solo, and I’m just cautious that I might spend the whole time sitting in silence or stick out like a sore thumb when it comes to the meal.
Do you have any advice or how I can get around this? Should I just not go?
Thanks,
Lucy
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Dear Lucy,
It is wonderful that you have been invited to your friend’s wedding even though it’s so far away – that’s a real testament to your bond.
It is clear that your friendship means a lot to your friend, and to you, too.
I understand you might be anxious, especially with the language barrier and attending the wedding solo, but you must go! It’s such an exciting opportunity.
Being without a plus-one can sometimes feel intimidating, but it can also make for a fantastic experience too! Without a partner to rely on, you might find yourself more open to meeting new people and fully embracing the event.
Your friend will undoubtedly ensure you are introduced to other guests, and Brazilian weddings are known for their lively, inclusive atmosphere.
I think you should think of this not as a trial, but as a true adventure.
Try to see it as an opportunity to embrace something new and create unique memories.
It is of course natural to worry about not speaking Portuguese, but weddings are joyful occasions where people communicate through smiles, gestures, and shared excitement.
I’ve actually got experience in this area, Alison explains (Picture: AKP Branding Stories)
You will find that people are warm and welcoming, and everyone there will appreciate that the language of love is universal.
It is important to learn a few basic Portuguese phrases and words. Even a simple ‘thank you,’ ‘hello,’ or ‘how are you?’ will go a long way toward connecting with people.
I’ve actually got experience in this area. A number of my husband’s family do not speak …read more
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