The Light We Carry review: Lessons in life from Michelle Obama

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The former First Lady’s second book is wise yet occasionally infuriatingly abstract (Picture: Nathan Congleton/NBC via Getty Images)

Unlike another extremely prominent American woman who likes to use their platform to dispense gooey life advice to everyone else, Michelle Obama doesn’t do Victim.

Which is just as well because this highly anticipated sequel to her global smash hit memoir Becoming is full of the sort of self regarding therapy gloop that in other less sensible hands might feel intolerable.

‘I’ve learned it’s ok to recognise that self worth comes wrapped in vulnerability,’ she writes, referring to the ‘personal tool box’ she built as a coping response to the pandemic, not to mention the wider seismic uncertainty unleashed by the Trump presidency.

Interestingly, this book was also conceived as a response to the quaking self doubt she experienced in the wave of the stratospheric success of Becoming.

For one of Obama’s biggest saving graces, both as America’s first First Lady of colour and later as an unquestionably talented writer, is her profound lack of airs and graces.

Amid the overwhelming demands and upheaval facing her in the weeks before she and Barack moved into the White House she includes the need to buy a pencil case for her daughter Sasha.

Michelle details what moving into the White House with two young daughters was like (Picture: Pete Souza/White House via Getty Images)

She revealed feeling insecure about her height as a child (Picture: Kevin Dietsch/Getty Images)

She talks about her unusual height as a child marking her out, but almost in the same breath acknowledges that this doesn’t make her special, but just like everyone else.

She understands that an important common ground is that nearly all of us, at times and to varying degrees, feel we don’t fit in. She doesn’t gloss over the complexities of modern life or pretend that invaluable coping mechanisms will affect meaningful change.

‘I’m not here to tell you that knitting [a pastime occupation she picked up during lockdown] is a cure for anything. It won’t end racism or demolish a virus or vanquish a depression’.

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British readers don’t tend to take well to the sort of soapy quasi-meaningless sentences to which this book is undeniably prone. And The Light We Carry is sometimes infuriatingly abstract.

Yet at the same time it is often wise (on friendship, on work, on inequality, on achieving) and nearly always properly inclusive.

Even for those who ordinarily hate self-help books.

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