Ask Amy: What does a modern women think about these movies?

Dear Amy: As a man, I have always been intrigued by how women’s emotions and reactions differ from men’s. I believe the psychologies of both sexes play equal roles in the wonderful dynamism that makes the world go ’round.

Columnist Amy Dickinson (Bill Hogan/Chicago Tribune) 

In the context of the women’s movement that has been occurring over the last several decades, I often wonder how contemporary women respond to so-called stereotypical female behavior as often portrayed in movies and TV dramas.

When a woman bursts into tears, can’t make up her mind, succumbs to a sweet-talking man, etc., does a contemporary woman say, “Come on, girl, buck up! Get a hold of yourself!” Or does she say, “Gee, I can see why she feels that way. I’d probably react the same way.”


Dear R: It is important to remember that most earlier media was created by men, and so the distance between Alice on “The Honeymooners” and the female characters realized by Shonda Rhimes or Phoebe Waller-Bridge shows what a long way depictions of the female experience have come.

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So yes, I’m more in the “buck up!” category, but I believe that most of us (women and men) experience our emotional lives along a wide spectrum.

Dear Amy: My mom drinks. When my brothers and I were young (we are all in our 20s now), her drinking wasn’t too bad. It got much worse after her mother died 15 years ago, and steadily worse with COVID-19. She is also a heavy cigarette smoker.

When she is drunk, she becomes very verbally abusive, and sometimes physically abusive.

She tells me that I am a worthless person, stupid, and that no one will ever love me. I tell her that this hurts me — and she laughs.

I try to walk away, but she will corner me. She goes after my brother and dad as well (our younger brother lives in another state).

My dad does nothing about this, which is understandable. My older brother lives with them full time. He just laughs it off and does not confront the problem.

I don’t know what to do. I moved back home a few months ago to help out.

I am at my …read more

Source:: The Mercury News – Lifestyle


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